1 in 3 teens in the United States experience teen dating violence (TDV).
What is TDV?
TDV is a pattern of behaviors that on dating partner uses to control the other. TDV can include the following forms of abuse:
- Physical: hitting, pushing, pulling, throwing objects
- Emotional/Verbal/Mental: name calling, put downs, mind games, threats, yelling
- Sexual: pressure to do unwanted activities without consent
- Isolation from friends: being overprotective and not letting partner go out
- Cyber: texting, spreading rumors online, posting unwanted pictures/videos
- Financial: controlling money
- Stalking: constantly checking up on partner
Teens who suffer dating abuse are at higher risk for long-term consequences like alcoholism, eating disorders, promiscuity, thoughts of suicide, and violent behavior (DoSomething.Org)
Within our API culture, it might feel uncomfortable for parents and children to bring up the issue of relationships, but it’s important to start the conversation so that our young people can be empowered to have healthy relationships.
What are some steps CPAF is taking to stop dating abuse among teens?
CPAF provides education on healthy relationships to youth organizations serving API youth using our “Healthy Teen Relationship” curriculum. Last summer, CPAF held a youth forum for 40 youth to talk about preventing dating violence in their schools and communities.