SAVE THE DATE! CPAF 40th Anniversary Gala – Friday, September 21, 2018

We are delighted to announce CPAF’s 40th Anniversary Gala will take place on:

Friday, September 21, 2018

6 PM

LA River Center & Gardens

570 W. Ave. 26, #100, Los Angeles, CA 90065

Learn more at our gala page here.

Join CPAF at our signature benefit gala, as we celebrate 40 years of engaging the community to end domestic and sexual violence through culturally-responsive crisis intervention and violence prevention. More than 400 community friends and partners gather to enjoy a food tasting, complimentary drinks & desserts provided by some of LA’s finest restaurants, and peruse artwork and “Hands of Hope” jewelry sales benefitting CPAF.

Culinary & Beverage Partners | Past Participants Include

Ayara Lūk | Barbara Jean | Chaya Downtown | Chicas Tacos | Commerson | Emporium Thai Cuisine | Gloria’s Restaurant & Bar | House of An | Little Sister LA | Osteria Vicario | Phorage | Red O | TikiFish

Peking Tavern | Ketel One | Lotte Beverage America | Mira Laguna Wines

Café Dulce | B Sweet Dessert Bar | and more!

Enjoy this Flashback Friday memory from CPAF’s 39th anniversary gala in 2017, featuring our band, “The Inspiration”, performing a medley starting with “September”. Check out the video below.



The Inspiration - Video

We invite you to join us in creating an Asian and Pacific Islander community that embraces healthy relationships and works in partnership with other communities to eradicate all forms of violence.

Celebrate our 40-year journey, honoring those who have stood alongside survivors of domestic and sexual violence and who work tirelessly to end violence.

Let’s nurture change together.

Learn more at our gala page here. Please click here to view our Sponsorship Packet.

To become a sponsor, please contact:
Michelle Esperanza, Development & External Relations Director | 323.653.4045 x334

Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month

According to the National Resource Center on Domestic Violence, “3 in 4 parents have never talked to their children about domestic violence” (NRCDV, 2017). Due to this, it is important to talk to youth about teen dating violence. February is Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month (TDVAM) and CPAF invites you to join us in bringing awareness to teen dating violence.


Break the Cycle, an organization dedicated to ending teen dating violence, listed out 28 different ways you can participate in raising awareness for TDVAM.


If you or someone you know is going through teen dating violence, here are 3 resources available:

  1. Call CPAF’s 24-hour Hotline1.800.339.3940 – we offer over 30 Asian Pacific Islander (API) languages available for those who speak limited English
  2. Text “loveis” to 22522 or visit to chat online



3. Download the “Love is Not Abuse” App on your iPhone: This educational app has resources and tips on warning signs for digital dating abuse and teen dating violence.



All resources listed are safe and confidential. Caller may remain anonymous. 

Sites cited:

Our Hearts Are Filled with Gratitude…

We are filled with gratitude for you, our supporters who have volunteered their time and donated holiday gifts to share with the families we serve at CPAF. We give many thanks to our holiday event volunteers and sponsors:


The holidays can be a difficult time for the families staying in our shelters: they have experienced trauma; their lives are changing; they are adjusting to a new environment and a new community.


By providing gifts, you are demonstrating that the community cares about survivors of domestic violence and sexual assault. Knowing that others in the community support their healing serves as a symbol of hope for the families we serve.


This year, gifts have been contributed by so many of you who are showing support and encouragement for these resilient survivors, including:



This multitude of gifts – more than 300 gifts in total – is being distributed this month to families served by CPAF. Thank you for your support!

Giving Thanks

Thank You for Your Support!

This season, we are especially thankful for all of you who support CPAF and the families we serve. We give thanks to those who fund the change we bring about together.

We wish everyone a peaceful and safe holiday weekend. Thank you for joining CPAF as we nurture change together.

Nov. 28 is #GivingTuesday: Up to $50k in Matching

#GivingTuesday - Nov. 28 - CPAF Fundraisers

In honor of #GivingTuesday, Facebook and the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation are contributing up to $2 million in matching to donations made through Facebook on November 28th.

How can you help? As a supporter of Center for the Pacific Asian Family (CPAF) we’d be honored if you would take this opportunity to show your commitment to our work by creating a Facebook fundraiser and sharing with your friends on #GivingTuesday.  Creating a fundraiser is easy and we welcome fundraisers with any goal amount.

Here’s how to create a fundraiser:

  • Go to
  • Click “Raise Money”
  • Select a cover photo option
  • The title and CPAF’s mission are pre-populated – feel free to tell your story, add an end date and a goal
  • Be sure to include #GivingTuesday in your description, then click “Create”
  • Then on #GivingTuesday, Nov. 28th, share and invite friends to give to your fundraiser

Where will the money raised go?

CPAF operates the only Asian and Pacific Islander (API)-language crisis hotline for survivors of domestic and sexual violence in Southern California, and the only rape crisis center tailored for API survivors state-wide. Families stay at CPAF’s safe and confidential shelters when they move from crisis to safety and healing. CPAF conducts community outreach to raise awareness about domestic violence and sexual assault, and partners with community-based organizations to deepen violence prevention strategies with API youth.

  • $1,000 pays for a week of summer activities for our youth at our shelters
  • $500 gives a stipend to a survivor to get job training or take English as a Second Language
  • $250 supplies a housewarming basket for families moving into their new home.
  • $100 funds a workshop on dating violence prevention for Asian and Pacific Islander youth.
  • $50 provides one night of emergency food and shelter for a family.

Donations to nonprofits made through Facebook’s charitable giving tools on November 28th will be matched up to $50,000 per nonprofit or $1,000 per fundraiser or donate button, until the $2 million in matching funds run out. The match will begin at 8AM EST (5AM PST).

Thank you for your support. Let’s nurture change together.

#MeToo – When and how will we start taking responsibility?

You’ve seen the #MeToo posts. You’ve read the articles on public figures and sexual assault in the workplace. But when will it end? What can we do?
Former CPAF staff member and current supporter Brittany Wong Morey shares her sentiments and makes us think about what we can do right now.


If all the women (or men) who have been sexually harassed or assaulted wrote “Me Too” as a status, we might give people a sense of the magnitude of the problem.

Please copy/paste if you too have been a victim

I hate having to post this, because I really don’t want pity or someone gasping, “I’m so sorry, I had no idea!” Honestly, and sadly, I am much more surprised when I meet a woman who has never been sexually harassed in some way. And I don’t want to put a spotlight on some of the darkest moments of my life. But as a SURVIVOR of rape, sexual harassment, assault, stalking, etc., I have met countless women and men who have been through similar experiences, and I want you to know that you are not alone, and you too are a SURVIVOR, and I will do what is in my power to fight for you and against this rape culture we live in.


I am proud of the fact that I worked at, supported, and plan to sit on the board of the Center for the Pacific Asian Family, an organization committed to helping survivors of domestic violence and sexual assault. I am also proud that I have on different occasions, “ran interference” for women I thought might be victimized if I didn’t step in, because what I saw was all too familiar in their situations. I know there’s probably more I could have done in some cases, and more I can still work on, but it’s a start.


Most of all, while I am personally aware of the sin and darkness of humanity, I have so much reason for hope. Against the odds, I am married to an amazing man who loves me unconditionally, cares for me, and supports me in all aspects of life. I have had the wonderful experience of being mentored professionally by men who truly saw and believed in what I bring to the table intellectually. And, my husband and I are raising two sweet, energetic, sensitive, caring, and crazy little boys to respect other people’s bodies and their own. I pray for them everyday that they will grow up to stand up for what is right, no matter what, and protect those who aren’t able to stand up for themselves. What will you do to make sure they grow up in a better world than the one we live in now?


We must take action and not give up hope, not despite these trying times, but especially now.

So what can we do? Here is a start.

Stand with Survivors: October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month

DVAM 2017

Throughout the month of October, we invite our community of supporters – you – to help raise awareness about domestic violence and join in our efforts to end violence. Here are some ways you can participate. Change involves you.

Help raise awareness by learning more:

Domestic violence can take many forms: physical, emotional, verbal, economic, legal and more. Examples can include:

  • controlling behavior, such as needing to know where you are all the time;
  • controlling money;
  • threatening deportation, threatening to take the kids away.

Believe survivors of domestic violence:

  • Domestic violence and sexual assault happen in the Asian & Pacific Islander (API) communities and API women are the least likely to report abuse.
  • 1 out of 2 Asian & Pacific Islander (API) immigrant women have been physically, sexually, and/or emotionally abused [Source: API Institute on Gender-Based Violence].

Help someone who might be experiencing domestic violence – let them know they are not alone:

  • Give them CPAF’s 24-Hour Multilingual Hotline Phone Number– 1-800-339-3940 – and encourage them to visit CPAF’s website, CPAF’s services are free, strictly confidential, and multi-lingual, in more than 25 Asian and Pacific Islander languages.

Make a donation to CPAF in honor of people in your life who have been affected by domestic violence, and in support of survivors:

Join us and let’s nurture change together.

Asian Pacific Islander Domestic Violence Task Force presents “Beyond the Basics” for DVAM

Every year Asian Pacific Islander Domestic Violence Task Force (APIDVTF) hosts an event in honor of October’s Domestic Violence Awareness Month (DVAM). APIDVTF was formed by a group of domestic violence social service agencies and community members in November 2004. CPAF is a task force member, working in collaboration with other agencies to eliminate domestic violence in Asian and Pacific Islander communities through outreach, education, and advocacy. For more information on the API Domestic Violence Task Force, please click on the link below:


This year, APIDVTF organized “Beyond the Basics: An Informational Event on Domestic Violence Resources for Service Providers,” a free event for service providers working in the Greater Los Angeles Area. The event included two informational presentations given by legal advocates and a panel discussion with domestic violence service providers from various backgrounds.

DACA updates from Tiffany Panlilio, Department of Justice accredited representative from Asian American Advancing Justice – Los Angeles (AAAJ-LA)  


Panelists include CPAF’s very own Patima Komolamit (Shelter Program Director) and Kathy Te (Emergency Shelter Program Manager)

CPAF recognizes that it takes a collaborative community effort to bring domestic violence awareness through outreach, advocacy, and education. Special thanks to APIDVTF members for their leading efforts in organizing this event and to Pacific Clinics Training Institute for hosting the site. CPAF is a proud member of APIDVTF and will continue to join in the fight to end domestic violence.


If you are interested in joining us in the struggle, here are some action steps you can take:

  • Check out our previous blog on easy ways to participate in DVAM 2017:

  • Want to get involved in APIDVTF’s 2018 event? Contact us through APIDVTF’s contact page:


A Year in Review: CPAF’s 2017 Annual Report

On behalf of everyone at Center for the Pacific Asian Family, THANK YOU! CPAF would not be able to provide its prevention, intervention, shelter, outreach and community engagement services without the generous support of our funders.

Head over to Resources to view our latest Annual Report for fiscal year 2016-2017.

After more than 17 years as partners serving survivors of domestic violence, CPAF and Asian Pacific Women’s Center (APWC) integrated to enhance our capacity to serve the diverse Asian and Pacific Islander communities of Southern California.

As a unified organization, we look forward to continuing to support survivors of domestic violence and sexual assault through linguistically-appropriate and culturally-specific services. Thank you for your generosity as we embark on our new chapter together.

FY 2016-17 Annual Report Highlights:

– In December 2016, CPAF’s Community Center moved to a larger facility in a more easily-accessible Mid-Wilshire location.

– In December 2016, CPAF completed a comprehensive renovation of its Emergency Shelter facility’s kitchen.

– In March 2017, CPAF integrated with sister agency APWC, adding 24 beds to its Transitional Program.

– This year, CPAF helped lead the movement to increase language access and build capacity in the community, both locally and state-wide.

o The City of Los Angeles selected CPAF to implement a project to increase language access for limited English speaking survivors at partner domestic violence organizations, and to strengthen CPAF’s Language Bank of bilingual volunteers, who support translation and interpretation needs of partner agencies.

o CPAF is one of six partners in the Multi-Year Language Access Resources (MYLAR) Project, which provides state-wide trainings for participants to learn how to adopt a diversity framework, enhance leadership and budget strategies, and increase language access at their workplace, all in reference to serving victims of crime more effectively throughout the state.

– CPAF’s Prevention Program experienced a 77% increase in youth participation over the previous year.

Continue following our blog for information about upcoming events as CPAF enters its 40th anniversary year in 2018!

Easy Way to Help This Domestic Violence Awareness Month

CPAF’s original template for Domestic Violence Awareness Month (DVAM) – please print and share!

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. CPAF encourages you to

1. Print the template above

2. Make it your own

3. Share on social media, using the hashtags #WHYICARE #DVAM2017 #CPAFORG

You can link to this blog too so others can create their own and share with more people.

Thank you advance for your participation and support. See you on social media! 🙂